It only goes to show that the world is changing,with the recent wedding of Kate Middleton to William Prince of England at twenty nine that the marrying age is pushed back father, and girls are not getting married right off ,after college.   Further as I explained to my friend,being single rocks, it’s the time in your life when you get to do as you please, be your own person. It’s also the time to enjoy your own company and do whatever you want to do with your life,explore your strengths and break down your limitations,what is so bad in that? Marriage takes major maturity,that is my theory,which I obviously have yet to acquire, if you are married, you have to know that there will be a lot of sacrifices and you have to be okay with that. It has to be more than just being okay with it, you have to want it, and add kids to the equation and it will be a miracle if you get two minutes of time for yourself. Getting a divorce with children,is scarier than having kids. It is compromise, commitment and constant work for the rest of your life together,that is marriage, and if it does not work in the end, getting a divorce is certainly not the solution. Can you imagine going through the mess of dividing properties and other stuff that you guys acquired while together,divorce is like giving up , waving the white flag and calling it quits. It would be so much messier if one of the other party is not yet ready to let go,I could just imagine going through the photos, and sorting them out. I propose a new question to married people,in behalf of all the single people who are living and loving it why are you married?